this writting is inspired by DC topic at Eme today.
chemistry means :
 the science that is concerned with studying the structure of substances and the way that they change or combine with each other.
 if there is chemistry between two people, they like each other and find each other attractive.
 the way substances combine in a particular process, thing, person, etc.
Well, topik yang unpredictable menjadi sangat debatable pagi tadi dalam Daily Conversation session di EME. For more spesific we talked and shared about the 2nd meaning of chemistry. So, it was about chemistry between people.Most of DC members said that they believed in chemistry between people. Lalu apa hal yg mjd sangat debatable?
3 orang di kelompokku setuju bahwa chemistry adalah sesuatu yang secara alami muncul dari dalam diri manusia ketika mereka bertemu dengan orang yang “TEPAT” sehingga apapun suasana hati mereka bisa berubah ke arah yang lebih baik dengan kehadiran “the right person’ tadi. Lalu satu orang memberikan persepsi yang sama antara chemistry dengan loving someone for a reason. Dia mencontohkan chemistry yang dia dapatkan ketika bertemu the right person adalah hal yang sama dengan ketika dia akhirnya bisa mencintai seseorang karena orang tersebut spending much time with him and shower him cares. Then dia kekeuh bahwa chemisty bukanlah sesuatu yang muncul secara natural dari dalam hati tapi sesuatu yang diciptakan seseorang karena willingness dan adanya faktor-faktor eksternal. Well, still I convinced them that chemistry is about natural feeling comes out from heart. Even we never could predict when it comes. Then ketika muncul pertanyaan, how important is chemistry to a relationship? In my opinion, it will be important for long term relation or even marriage. Why? Because with chemistry, if there are many differences between the couple, they will face it easily and wisely. Then it’s absolutely different from loving someone by a reason. Loving someone by a reason is something that is not immortal. So when he/she stops caring to us then we can lose the feeling. Lucunya ni, satu member grup kami masih bersikeras bahwa di dunia ini tidak hal yang benar-benar alami, namun segala sesuatu terjadi karena memang dirancang oleh individu atau sekelompok individu tersebut. He is very strict in keeping his point of view. well, yeah that’s what is called a discussion.
Okey, let’s go to another experience of chemistry between people. I experienced feeling chemistry a couple months ago, and even maybe I still feel it til now. Let’s say, I was in to him before I met him. What should I call it if no chemistry? Then for some cases, I often knew what would happen to him (eventhough people would think it’s only coincidence but I didnt think so).
to be continued……